Wish 274: the doing of not doing

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. I write a Very Personal Ad each week to practice wanting, and get clarity on my desires. The point isn’t achieving the wish (though cool things emerge from wishing), the point is learning about my relationship...

Chicken 312: pleasurably disruptive

Where I cover the good and the hard in my week, visiting the non-preachy side of ritual and self-reflection. It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for Friday} It is the 312th Chicken in a row. I am back from the Vicarage and really happy to be here. I missed you...

Wish #245: it is real and it isn’t

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write a Very Personal Ad (aka Vision-Possibility-Anticipation) to practice wanting, and get clarity about my desires. Sometimes wanting feels conflicted or just plain hard, and that’s okay. At the...

Coming through with a tray.

A few months ago, at Rally (Rally!), Agent Em Dee shared with me a very Rally-esque mini-epiphany she’d had while conducting. It had to do with a tray, that is the part I remember most clearly, and it went something like this: “I suddenly realized that...
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