by Havi Brooks | Mar 17, 2011 | stucknesses & stuckification
I’m not sure if you know Maryann. I mention her kind of a lot. She’s one of the most thoughtful and worth-listening-to people I know. Anyway, yesterday on Facebook she put out the question: When you feel discouraged about your art or your business, what...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 15, 2011 | my personal practice
Background! The Book of You is the ongoing project that emerges from collecting notes about how we function and what our patterns are and what we need to feel safe and supported. Notes, observations, insights, moments of bing!, plus all the stuff you know about...
by Havi Brooks | Feb 17, 2011 | stucknesses & stuckification
Everything is connected. At least, theoretically. And even if it isn’t, we can pretend (or assume) that within the world of you and your you-ness: Connections are everywhere. This comes in handy whenever things get overwhelming. Or when your to-do list is...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 23, 2011 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 5, 2011 | stucknesses & stuckification
Or: the difference between process and actual destuckifying. When people set off on the trail of destuckification, it often happens that they hit the Grinding Your Wheels In The Mud phase. What wheel-grinding looks and sounds like: Looping conversations in our head,...