Something I have forgotten to say.

For five years now I have been writing wishes and sharing them here every week. I’ve done a lot of thinking, here and on my own, about how scary and fraught it can be to reveal wishes, even to myself, never mind TO THE INTERNET. How wishing itself is intensely...

Wish #247: a home for wishes

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. I write a Very Personal Ad each week to practice wanting, and get clarity about my desires. The point isn’t getting my wish (though cool things have emerged from wishing), the point is learning about my...

In my dream I said thank you.

I had a dream and in the dream I said thank you. In the dream Hoppy House was suddenly in Hawaii. Hoppy House is what I call my house. It was in Hawaii, and it was on the beach, and it had more windows than it normally does but in all other ways was the same, and the...

Five small thank yous.

Just seems like a thanking sort of day. Not a 77 Things That Don’t Completely Suck sort of day. Just a thanking day. Thank you to Mr. Pants for saying everything that’s in my head. But that I don’t have the balls to say. Also for coming up with the...
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