When things aren’t working.

The hardest part when things aren’t working is waiting for the new things to come in. The ones that do work. That is to say: The new patterns, the new customs and rituals, the new techniques, the new approach. (If you’ve done pattern-dancing with me,...

Hello, January.

Oh, January. You are my hard month. And I have been avoiding welcoming you. But here we are, me and January. So in the spirit of conscious entry and preparing for the voyage, I am here with you, January. And more than that: I recognize that you are a door. I’m...

Very Personal Ads #130: RAWR GOOMB it

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...
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