by Havi Brooks | May 12, 2011 | my personal practice
There is this marvelous thing that lives at the Playground. This is actually something I invented for one of the early Rallies (Rally!), and it’s become a huge part of Rally culture. It’s the right to decide at any given moment that you don’t feel...
by Havi Brooks | May 11, 2011 | stucknesses & stuckification
I loved the movie Memento, even though it was extremely not HSP-friendly. And, interestingly, I also loved Fifty First Dates, even though “romantic comedy with Adam Sandler” does not sound like something I’d even agree to watch. And I...
by Havi Brooks | May 10, 2011 | stucknesses & stuckification
Why is such a tricky question. Maybe even the trickiest. There are times when it is so completely not useful to ask why. The resistance-filled why, which takes me into self-interrogation and blame. But there is also the helpful why. The one that is loving, curious and...
by Havi Brooks | May 8, 2011 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...
by Havi Brooks | May 6, 2011 | updates & announcements
In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of ritual and self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. Chicken! A leetle late, but it’s still Friday. I have not even the slightest...
