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The CEO with the stripey socks (part 1)

by Havi Brooks | Oct 8, 2009 | biggification, my personal practice

So the big theme of my Extremely Necessary Vacation has been sovereignty. That’s the very useful word I picked up from my dear friend Hiro and it refers to oh, pretty much everything I’m working on right now. Namely: not caring so much about what other...

You know what I’m terrible at?

by Havi Brooks | Oct 7, 2009 | biggification, updates & announcements

Right. That too. But specifically writing FAQs. Honestly. You have no idea how much I dislike it. This was actually “supposed to be” the post where I announce that I finally have one (three years after I decided I needed one) … but it’s already...

Your ideal family (playing with Wishcraft)

by Havi Brooks | Oct 5, 2009 | stuff I think about

Third post in a short series … The very, very short introduction: I find most self-help-ey books to be pretty insipid. At best. But I adore Wishcraft by Barbara Sher. You can download the ebook version at no cost on her website if you like. If you do,...

Very Personal Ads #14: tangled and confused!

by Havi Brooks | Oct 4, 2009 | stuff I think about

Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...

Friday Chicken #61: I have trouble with “necessary”

by Havi Brooks | Oct 2, 2009 | updates & announcements

Because it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. Mostly with spelling it....
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