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To hell with transparency.

by Havi Brooks | May 26, 2009 | biggification, stucknesses & stuckification

Okay, so when people ask me about business-ey things, and — more specifically — how my own thing has gotten all biggified, I have to talk about the weird magical power of being yourself. And not just being yourself, but being yourself out loud. Even if...

Destuckification 101

by Havi Brooks | May 7, 2009 | stucknesses & stuckification, stuff I think about

While attempting the other day to answer some 17,000 (okay, slight exaggeration) Ask Havi posts at once, I had to stop and hit the brakes. It had become very apparent just how huge the lack of general knowledge and understanding about destuckifying is. Here’s my...

When you don’t want anyone to look at you.

by Havi Brooks | Apr 27, 2009 | my personal practice, not hating on yourself, stucknesses & stuckification

I spent most of my twenties not wanting to be seen. Actually, I probably spent most of my life not wanting to be seen, but what really sticks out is the period right after I got divorced. Not wanting to be seen (take 1) One of the many lovely things I acquired along...

Doing just one thing.

by Havi Brooks | Apr 14, 2009 | mindful time management, my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification

Just one thing. That’s been my theme lately. Theme, mantra, guiding principle. I don’t know. Whatever you want to call it. “Just one thing” is different from “one thing at a time” or from “don’t take on too many...

Avoidance! Oh, and getting out of it.

by Havi Brooks | Mar 3, 2009 | stucknesses & stuckification

“Why haven’t I been doing more?” So I was reading this blog post by Emma called Havi, hope, and an unexpected hero. Yes, I will read your blog post if it has my name in the title but it has to be really, really fascinating (yes, even beyond that) for...

Birthdays, existential crises, and talking about the recession.

by Havi Brooks | Feb 26, 2009 | biggification, stucknesses & stuckification, updates & announcements

I spent about an hour and a half talking to Naomi this weekend. About the usual stuff… you know, stuff we’re working on, stuff we’re thinking about, how my duck is a whore. About how much it sucks that we’re so far away from each other, and how...
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