by Havi Brooks | Feb 19, 2009 | my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification, stuff I think about
We ended on something of a cliffhanger last time. So I should probably give you a tiny bit of background. The very short version is that I talk to walls. And myself. And a duck. Really, if you keep reading now, you’ve no one to blame but yourself. 🙂 The...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 26, 2009 | my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification, stuff I think about
I had kind of a disturbing realization this past week — and it really shook me up. Be patient with me though. It might seem kind of superficial at first glance, but it’s not: I am not an outsider. And neither are you. Whoah. Crazy. This makes no sense....
by Havi Brooks | Jan 19, 2009 | stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits
I wrote last week about some of the people who believed in me without me ever giving them reason to and how powerful that was. The post triggered lots of stuff — both interesting realizations and also huge amounts of internal resistance — for clients and a...
by Havi Brooks | Dec 16, 2008 | stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits
And it’s number eleven in our weekly series about making blogging (or the thought of maybe eventually getting around to it) seem more fun and less scary. But as we all know, this series is not really about blogging. It’s about working on your patterns and...
by Havi Brooks | Dec 11, 2008 | stucknesses & stuckification
Clearly you’re going to have to finally talk to that person about that thing. You know you are. And really, it could not be more uncomfortable. You didn’t want to have the conversation to begin with — but now you have to and you’re dreading it....
by Havi Brooks | Dec 1, 2008 | stucknesses & stuckification
I got an anonymous letter. I’m going to share it with you. Here it is. I saw the very touching letter in your most recent Ask Havi post and my stomach twisted up. And I decided, what the hell, I’ll write you and Selma. I read all your blog posts and love...
