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Pain and safety — an email exchange

by Havi Brooks | Nov 24, 2008 | stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits

Okay, so this was going to be a more traditional anonymous Ask Havi about some of the different ways we can deal with heartache and pain. But I was deeply touched by this woman who wrote to me, and I am so in love with the unique, quirky “I’m a real human...

Blogging therapy: Nooo! Don’t make me be vulnerable!

by Havi Brooks | Nov 18, 2008 | biggification, stucknesses & stuckification

Let’s go. This is number seven in our weekly series on how to take some of the scary out of blogging (or of anything else). In case you want to catch up (you totally don’t have to), here are the rest of the posts: Part 1. What if people are mean to me?...

Blogging therapy: But I’m not an EXPERT!

by Havi Brooks | Nov 11, 2008 | biggification, not hating on yourself, stucknesses & stuckification

Tuesday! Let’s do this thing. This is number six in our weekly series on how to take some of the scary out of blogging (or of anything else). Wanna catch up? You don’t have to. But here are the rest, just in case: Part 1. What if people are mean to me?...

Awkward conversations (and a wacky exercise)

by Havi Brooks | Nov 10, 2008 | calm techniques, stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits

Let’s pretend that you have to have an awkward, uncomfortable conversation or confrontation or something else that begins with “con” coming up. And I’ll just go ahead and assume that you’re totally not looking forward to it. Anyway, even...

When you need support and aren’t getting it

by Havi Brooks | Nov 3, 2008 | mindful time management, not hating on yourself, stucknesses & stuckification

Huge theme in my inbox lately. You want support. You need support. And it’s just not showing up. We touched on this yesterday with the whole “how come my friends don’t comment on my blog” phenomenon. And a number of Procrastination...

You don’t have to face your fear. Really.

by Havi Brooks | Sep 24, 2008 | not hating on yourself, stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits

We had some pretty intense discussion happening in the comments section of last week’s talking truth to fear post. And not intense in a bad way. The opposite, in fact. Really good points being brought up, people showing up and respectfully debating ideas and, in...
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