The Chicken of All Things Change

Reflecting on both the hard and the good parts in the week that was… It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for being here when we get here.} Thank you, week. This is the 368th week in a row that we are chickening here together. Or “checking in”, if...

Not my area.

Bells. Sometimes someone says something very, very wise, and it is the exact right moment for you to hear it, and the words reverberate within you and around you like a singing bowl. You are a bell and the words are bells and you bell together. And then, later, you...

Wish 307: State of Emergence

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. I write a Very Personal Ad each week to practice wanting, and get clarity about my desires. The point isn’t getting my wish (though cool things have emerged from wishing), the point is learning about my...

Chicken 353: hearing a smile

A look at the good and the hard in my week, a ritual of reflecting. It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for Friday.} What worked this week? That’s not how we speak to toddlers. Sometimes when I notice a not particularly helpful pattern (“Oh! Doing that thing where...

38 Yawns

Setting off. I wrote this piece six weeks ago, on the night the boy and I left Portland for Operation True Yes, six months of wandering. It was Erev, the Eve of, and specifically the Eve of Yeses. The embarking, the setting off. If you are not familiar with the...
The Fluent Self