by Havi Brooks | Feb 20, 2015 | my personal practice
A look at the good and the hard in my week, a ritual of reflecting. It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for Friday.} What worked this week? Treating the emotion, not the symptom. Straight to the source. Next time I might… Ask for help. I hit a situation I...
by Havi Brooks | Aug 11, 2014 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. I write a Very Personal Ad each week to practice wanting, and get clarity about my desires. The point isn’t getting my wish (though cool things have emerged from wishing), the point is learning about my...
by Havi Brooks | Feb 15, 2012 | stuff I think about
Someone submitted a comment last week in reply to a request I made for people to donate things to the Playground, and I want us to sit with this part of it: “If you have ten people at a Rally, that’s fifteen thousand dollars. I’m wondering why you...
by Havi Brooks | Jun 26, 2011 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 27, 2011 | stucknesses & stuckification
When I get stalled and stuckified — which happens all the time — I have this game I play. You stop whatever you’re doing. You look around and find five objects. Objects isn’t really a big enough category. Five somethings. Could also be things...