Ask Havi #21: No idea why I do this.

Note: it is almost impossible to get on the Ask Havi list. This person got in by a. being one of my clients or students, b. flattering the hell out of my duck, and c. making life easy on me by being clear about what the question was and what details I could use....

Making your idea matter.

So I managed to piss some people off during the “Havi and Naomi talk about sidestepping the tight economy” call. Here’s what I said: The implementation of an idea is more important than the idea itself. The funny thing is that if you hate this...

Ask Havi #16: Holiday Loneliness

The holidays tend to trigger — in all of us — all sorts of uncomfortable stuff. Today’s Ask Havi comes from a woman in an especially tough spot. I will do what I can to come up with a kind of abridged survival guide to help her through this lonely...

Friday Check-in #19: inlaws edition

Because it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. Okay, this week was kind...
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