Planting hidden surprises for later.

Yesterday I talked about the practice of leaving presents for future-me. And Larisa told this awesome story in the comments about how her brother used to throw fistfuls of Jolly Ranchers into the backseat of the car to discover later. Exactly. Like that! There are so...

The Festival of Blanket Forts.

So it’s Sukkot right now, which is my favorite holiday. And yes, I continue to say this about pretty much all the holidays… but that’s really only because each one actually IS my favorite while it’s happening. I mean, come on. How is every...

74 ways to push the reset button.

When things aren’t working, even the tiniest time-out = magic. Yesterday things were very much not working, so I ended up making a list of the various ways available to me when I need to push the reset button. Here it is. Reset! Let’s see. You could… Take...

A conversation with me who is toast.

Talking through the burnout. And yes, I’m talking to myself. What is needed? What do you need, sweetie? More stopping. More going dark. More hiding. Acknowledging the hard. And finding the useful. What is useful here? Obviously, burnout sucks. Without having to...
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