by Havi Brooks | Jun 19, 2011 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 11, 2011 | stuff I think about
Because it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. One hundred and thirty...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 2, 2011 | not hating on yourself
It’s story time today. Ten years ago this May. I don’t want to write about this. And definitely not in the mood to go into all the details. So. Ignoring the mechanisms, the how and why of my world falling apart, some relevant pieces: In May of...
by Havi Brooks | Jul 1, 2010 | stuff I think about
So I’m on Official Non-Emergency Pirate Queen Holiday this week. As you might imagine, there has been much journaling. Thought you might like a peek at some of the bits and pieces in the Pirate Queen Vacation Spiral Notebook. I hope it mostly makes sense. The...
by Havi Brooks | Dec 22, 2008 | ask Havi
The holidays tend to trigger — in all of us — all sorts of uncomfortable stuff. Today’s Ask Havi comes from a woman in an especially tough spot. I will do what I can to come up with a kind of abridged survival guide to help her through this lonely...
