by Havi Brooks | Oct 6, 2011 | stucknesses & stuckification
This post is for every time I’ve hinted at the theoretical possibility of eventually being able to forgive ourselves for something. There is always deep — and completely legitimate — pain that appears in the comments in response to this. And often a...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 28, 2011 | my personal practice
I’m wishing us a sweet, healthy, happy, sustainable, peaceful new year. Let it be filled with delight, spaciousness, ease, grace, color, and endless surprises of the good kind. Time in the hammock. Good snacks. And really great costumes. I would like to see what...
by Havi Brooks | May 31, 2011 | my personal practice
I collect signs. Not literally or anything. I just make a note when I come across a good one. What is a good sign? A good sign is like a thoughtful bathroom. It’s filled with love. Written by someone with a caring heart. A good sign is like a Very Personal Ad....
by Havi Brooks | May 29, 2011 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...
by Havi Brooks | May 26, 2011 | stuff I think about
Unconditional love is such a weird concept. It’s both crazy hard and incredibly simple. Hard to remember. Especially when I feel overwhelmed, depressed, anxious, unsure, disconnected. Sometimes I have to remind myself from the outside when I forget how to access...