When visibility leads to safety.

So last week I wrote about sneaking into visibility. Which means: everything you do (including unlikely invisibility hacks) to help you feel safe while still letting your right people find you. And since the post was already about all things sneakified, I sneakily...

The Secret Life of Burnout

Right now it seems like most of my friends and clients are in various stages of that uncomfortable, unpleasant, overwhelming thing that is being completely burnt out. Burnout. Ugh. Being in it is sucky and terrible. We know that. From ridiculous amounts of experience....

On invoking protection.

Okay. This post was supposed to be a continuation of yesterday’s musings about the art of preparing for something you really, really want. About the Playground — my new baby that is not a baby, and some of the things I’m doing, working on, thinking...

A tiny, sweet thing.

A baby is a tiny, sweet thing. With tiny, sweet toes. Pure potential. But completely there. Babies need: love, protection, caring, acknowledgment, rest, nourishment, space to grow, quiet, comfort, people to smile at it, more love… Babies do not need: noise,...

Working with pain.

I have been wanting to do some writing about the realizations I’ve had while working on and through the pain in my arms. It’s just that I keep getting tangled up around how to start. It’s hard to draw a map of the healing process when you don’t...
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