Chicken 320: Wild and Free

Where I cover the good and the hard in my week, visiting the non-preachy side of ritual and self-reflection. It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for Friday.} What worked this week? Asking for what I wanted. In all ways. Especially in the form of pauses,...

The Gracious No.

I’ve been working pretty much non-stop on this for a couple years now. I’ve written about how stuckified I can get with saying NO. And composed so many Very Personal Ads asking for help finding that elusive, gracious NO. Because that’s what I want:...

Transition-ey stuff. Take 2.

So. I’m using the last week of 2009 to get some things in order. Well, at least I did yesterday. There’s the casual “hey, this is me accounting for things”. And the “looking at the books” sort of accounting. And some “cheshbon...
The Fluent Self