by Havi Brooks | Sep 12, 2014 | updates & announcements
Where I cover the good and the hard in my week, visiting the non-preachy side of ritual and self-reflection. It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for Friday.} What worked this week? Asking for what I wanted. In all ways. Especially in the form of pauses,...
by Havi Brooks | Aug 29, 2014 | stuff I think about
Where I cover the good and the hard in my week, visiting the non-preachy side of ritual and self-reflection. It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for Friday.} What worked this week? Leaving the moment I knew I didn’t want to be there. Not my yes? Goodbye!...
by Havi Brooks | Feb 3, 2011 | my personal practice
There are two things you should know about me. The first is that I do not believe in failed experiments. The second is that even though I am — apparently — spectacularly bad at being two years old, I am quite gifted at one part of it: being disagreeable....
by Havi Brooks | Jun 24, 2010 | biggification
I’ve been working pretty much non-stop on this for a couple years now. I’ve written about how stuckified I can get with saying NO. And composed so many Very Personal Ads asking for help finding that elusive, gracious NO. Because that’s what I want:...
by Havi Brooks | Dec 29, 2009 | stuff I think about
So. I’m using the last week of 2009 to get some things in order. Well, at least I did yesterday. There’s the casual “hey, this is me accounting for things”. And the “looking at the books” sort of accounting. And some “cheshbon...