Very Personal Ads #130: RAWR GOOMB it

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...

Trusting my instincts.

I never end up doing that thing where people choose a theme for the year. It makes sense, sure. I see how it can be useful to name an intention or invoke a quality. Kind of like my OOD practice. But for whatever reason, that word theme — for me! — seems...

More clews!

So I went clew-searching again. And every time I do this, I wonder why I don’t do it a hundred times a day. It’s crazy-helpful and always surprising. These are the clews that I decided were clews. The ones that caught my eye as I was perched on my teaching...
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