by Havi Brooks | Mar 4, 2011 | updates & announcements
Because it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. Huh. Apparently...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 13, 2008 | mindful time management, my personal practice, stuff I think about
I took a day off yesterday. It wasn’t the fun kind of day off. (Though yeah, it is possible that some fun was had.) It was the kind of day off that you take when you realize that if you don’t stop working right this second you are going to get sick. I was...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 10, 2008 | calm techniques, stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits
Let’s pretend that you have to have an awkward, uncomfortable conversation or confrontation or something else that begins with “con” coming up. And I’ll just go ahead and assume that you’re totally not looking forward to it. Anyway, even...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 3, 2008 | my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits
And why you still don’t have to do it even if it is. Some people hate incredibly tacky Christmas decorations. Some people hate cherry Coke. Or, you know, things like racism and war. Me? I hate charades. Not “people pretending to be something they...
by Havi Brooks | Jul 22, 2008 | noozletter, not hating on yourself, stucknesses & stuckification
When you keep getting knocked down.It’s that truckload of criticism again. Criticism — the unasked-for kind that’s chock full of hurtful judgments — is no fun, to say the least. That’s not exactly news. But aside from the unpleasantness...