by Havi Brooks | May 5, 2010 | biggification
We talk a lot here about how scary it can be to be seen. Also about the longing to be seen — seen by certain people. To be acknowledged for what you have done or who you are. The safety of not being found versus the desire to be found. I’ve written about...
by Havi Brooks | Jul 15, 2009 | updates & announcements
A somewhat goofy mini-collection of stuff I’ve been reading, stuff I’ve been thinking about and oh, some completely random crap. Basically the stuff that never gets mentioned here because I’m not the kind of person who can just make some teeny little...
by Havi Brooks | May 14, 2009 | my personal practice
I was at my friend Carolyn’s yesterday afternoon. And I was feeling pretty upset about the whole awful gold-toothed hackers invading my website thing. Upset and vulnerable. Foggy, even. Like my brain had been hacked too. She led me through a cool little process....
by Havi Brooks | Apr 27, 2009 | my personal practice, not hating on yourself, stucknesses & stuckification
I spent most of my twenties not wanting to be seen. Actually, I probably spent most of my life not wanting to be seen, but what really sticks out is the period right after I got divorced. Not wanting to be seen (take 1) One of the many lovely things I acquired along...
