by Havi Brooks | Jan 5, 2011 | stucknesses & stuckification
Or: the difference between process and actual destuckifying. When people set off on the trail of destuckification, it often happens that they hit the Grinding Your Wheels In The Mud phase. What wheel-grinding looks and sounds like: Looping conversations in our head,...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 4, 2011 | stuff I think about
So. I was at the Playground yesterday — the center where I teach this stuff — doing what I often do: Moving things around. Figuratively too, but mostly literally. Pushing one table this way. Moving another to the Galley (because the Playground is also a...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 2, 2011 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Dec 31, 2010 | updates & announcements
Because it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. I love how the last day...
by Havi Brooks | Dec 30, 2010 | stuff I think about
So normally the Chicken happens every Friday when I write about the hard stuff and the good stuff from my week. And occasionally on Thursday.. We also have a yearly chicken tradition, that started with the big crazy Chicken for 2008 and continued with the Great...