by Havi Brooks | Sep 6, 2010 | stuff I think about
Or better: the month of newness and beginnings, since most beginnings are new anyway. This newness is special. You can just tell. So all of a sudden it’s September. And not just September but now. It was kind of … dark-ish when I climbed out of bed at six...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 5, 2010 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 3, 2010 | updates & announcements
Because it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. Wow. Stuff actually...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 2, 2010 | biggification
There is not yet a Lonely Planet guide to The Fluent Self, Inc — Pirate Ship At Large! And yet, everyone who interacts with my business or the blog gets a visceral sense of what things are like around here. Over the past few months I’ve been obsessively...
by Havi Brooks | Aug 31, 2010 | stuff I think about
I am thirty three years old and have not once seriously considered moving to Bolivia. It’s weird, because normally I wouldn’t even mention that. But here we are. Most women do end up moving to Bolivia. And by my age, you’re pretty much expected to...